We are always looking for the perfect relationship. The goal is to find that perfect someone who will make our lives a better place to be. It is unfortunate that we don't realize perfection runs two ways. In order to find that perfect somebody, we must believe that, whatever perfect is, we have already achieved it. No one can give us what we don't already have. Mr. or Mrs. Right cannot be to us what we are not. If we are unhappy, unfulfilled, not pleased about who we are, we owe it to ourselves to stop looking. We have to ask ourselves: Would I marry me? Am I doing my best, giving my all, being the best I can be to myself? If not, why are we pawning ourselves off on someone else. We need to take time to do some homework on self-LOVE, self-esteem and self-confidence. When we can pass the test of self-acceptance, the perfect somone who will compliment all that we already are will walk right through the door.
I had wrote something about this but never posted it on my blog. I think people spend so much time looking for that "perfect mate" yet they are not "perfect." I hear women (and men) who have a list of the things they want but yet they do not meet any of the qualifications. How can you want something you do not possess? You want someone to be faithful to you but you are a cheater?? Really??
ReplyDeleteI am just a strong believer of doing an inventory of yourself before trying to find someone else. I think that is why there are so many broken women out here. They are looking for happiness within a man yet they are unhappy with themselves.
Yes Stacy and that is true for men too! Until we learn to work on being better people we are going to continue to attract people we don't want in our lives. Its a very simple concept. The reality is most people don't want to do the work. LOVE you sis and thank you for your support:)
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